Hello everyone and thank you for you interest.
Everyone has to start somewhere, right? I assembled some guides that give quick, pertinent answers to the most often asked questions. Whether you're a client or an escort, if you're new to the hobby, this is the place to start.
Ground Rules:
First, you cannot "expect" anything more than to pay a lady for her time with you, either at a place mutually agreeable ("outcall") or at her place ("incall"). Anything else and you may be participating in an illegal activity. Prostitution is illegal throughout the US, with the exception of the legalized brothels in Nevada. Both client and escort are breaking the law.
The following two points are important to understand:
Money exchanged in legal adult personal services is only for time and discreet companionship. It may also be in exchange for certain services such as exotic private dance, modeling, role-playing or sensual massage.
But, of course, the male expectation/fantasy goes beyond merely meeting with her for an hour. Most "expect" a sexual experience, which for most includes fondling and embracing, followed by her performing oral sex, followed by intercourse. If this does happen (and there is no guarantee that it will happen given the above parameters), then whatever happens is a purely a matter of personal choice and personal preference between two or more consenting adults of a legal age and is not contracted for nor is it requested to be contracted for or compensated for in any manner.
What To Expect:
Do expect her to turn and leave if you use any specific words that can lead to her arrest. "Hey, babe, how's about a quick blow job?" will make most escorts leave quickly, both because those words describe an illegal act and because you'd be proving you're a crude dumbass. You can NOT use any such words...at least not until you both have decided you aren't with a cop and are naked. Then you can get more specific.
These initial moments are tricky. You both share common desires - My suggestion to you is to let her lead the way here. After all, she's a pro and she knows the drill.
I suggest you deal with escorts you _know_ have been in business for a goodly length of time (you've seen their webpage's for several months or more) and who have been reviewed positively in the various sites.
Do expect that she may, especially if she's from an agency, phone in to let them know she's there and that things are going well. Also Do expect that she will call after the session is finished to let them know she is OK and leaving for the next session or whatever.
Do expect to pay her for her time upfront, of course. The amount varies by region and by escort, but in general it ranges from around (in a place like West Virginia) to or more (in large cities or with one of the "super-stars"). Cash.
Some will advise you to leave the money lying on the dresser, working on the premise that is less illegal than actually giving it to her. I'm not sure I perceive the distinction, but what the hell. Best course of action is to just place the money on a bedside table or hand directly to her without saying anything. Repeat don't say anything.
Do expect her to treat you professionally. She sees you as a client, not her boyfriend. If you want moon/June romance, stick with a girl-friend. She is a pro and she knows about everything you can possibly suggest, so she'll do those things. Not ALL of those things. Most escorts will not accept anal sex ("Greek"), for example. But she will be ready for you to want oral sex ("French") or to put your penis between her breasts ("Russian") and such.
Do expect her to be ready to leave after you've climaxed once. If you are lucky and connect with a quality, professional escort she may well offer a second climax OR she may stay the remainder of the hour and offer to massage your back or just to chit-chat. Consider a "second chance" OR filling out the hour to be a bonus.
A tip, though not always expected is ALWAYS appreciated! Doesn't have to be a huge tip, I typically tip from - for a one hour session. More for longer sessions or "extra-special" service.
What Not To Expect:
Do not expect anything without a condom. Plain common sense!
Do not expect to perform oral sex on her. Many escorts don't like that.
Do not expect deep kisses. Most escorts hate that, and besides, she's not your girl-friend you're trying to seduce.
Do not expect to insert your fingers in her pussy. That hurts.
Do not expect "Greek" or anal sex, unless she specifically mentions or advertises such a specialty. If available, it will generally be expected that you may pay an additional fee for the "extra" time.
Mention fee if you don't already know, but don't ask specific questions about it. Don't be graphic or specific-EVER.
Place the agreed upon fee on a dresser or nightstand. Pre-counted and in a plain white envelope is always a nice touch. Don't seal the envelope. You may even hand it directly to her if it feels comfortable or if she extends her hand--but DO NOT SAY ANYTHING. Nothing. Just hand it over in payment for her time. Don't argue, ask for explanations, try to bargain, or otherwise ruin the mood at this point. Have a little trust and faith, you will be rewarded!
Let her guide the session at her pace. You would be surprised at the improvement in service you'll get.
After you get to know each other a bit, she may stroke or rub you a little. Let it progress on its own rhythm. She is aware of the time and will make sure you get your business done in the allotted time.
If the service was excellent and the company was superb, think about leaving a small tip to express your gratitude. Especially, if you are thinking of seeing her again. Depending on the length of the visit, a token tip of anywhere from to would surely be appreciated--figure this into your budget for the evening. I do know that this final step has served me very, very well.
